My wife died Tuesday

Lee (Mrs. DT) died in her sleep Tuesday. She and I were in the middle of a divorce, but I never wished this on her. At least now she is in a place without worldly pains for the first time in 14 years.

On the other hand, I have to fill out a lot of paperwork in order to clear up our finances because she had most of the income. Once I get through that and getting a new passport I’ll be getting a motor home and taking a vacation overseas. Any suggestions?

And how do I sell a home quickly?

DT,I am sorry for your loss.


I am sorry for your loss.  I can only imagine the tumble of emotions you are feeling right now.  My thoughts are with you as you work your way through all the changes you have coming.

Good luck.





Very sorry to hear of your loss

I have little to offer in advice, but can appreciate the turmoil of long term sick relatives - my sister in law is virtually bed bound and lives with her mother, who at 85 is at least mobile but not well.  My wife and I have the duty of care over them as they only live three blocks away and the only other relative lives on the other side of Australia.  Wonder if you have considered Australia as a choice for touring, many grey nomads over here with no house - sold up and brought motor home.


Sorry to hear of your loss buddy.

Mid-divorce or not, losing anyone you have been that close with is such a difficult thing to go through.

And never, ever apologise for being overly chatty; the worst thing you can do is not talk!



so sorry DT

Loosing anyone that you have know so long hurts… no matter the circumstance. Let me know if you need any help or a shoulder to lean on.


Thanks Rox, I might take you
Thanks Rox, I might take you up on that, but I have a pair of very good friends who are helping me out. They stayed with me much of Teusday night and we went out tonight for our semi-normal dinner and bookstore thing. Wednesday they are taking me to the huge RV show in Harrisburg, PA. That way I can hopefully check out the floor plans I want to buy and see if they’ll how big a robot they’ll fit. :slight_smile:

Thank you very much, it means a lot to me.

Sorry DT

My condolences and I´m sure she also in a better situation.

I wish you all the best now and if you need any help just tell. For selling the house I´m sorry but living in UK I can´t tell you.

About having hollidays, well Barcelona and Sevilla (Spain) are great places to go and weather will still be good some weeks more (I´m now in London just in case you wander). Those places can be busy or quiet depending or what you want. Nice places to visit to and very good food. I don´t know if you like the plan…

All the best,


Very sorry for your loss!

Very sorry for your loss!

Hey, I hadn’t seen this,

Hey, I hadn’t seen this, sorry for you, ‘DangerousThing’. Here’s a cyber hug :slight_smile: I hope you’ll manage, you will. You will. :slight_smile:

Very sorry for your loss,

Very sorry for your loss, DT. May her soul rest in peace. 

Thank you all for your kind

Thank you all for your kind thoughts and information.