The 20Amp rating for the 12V, 12RPM 8110.2oz-in HD Planetary Gearmotor is when the gear motor is stalled which should never happen. Stalling the motor for long period of time will damage the motor.
In a normal use (with a rated load), the current consumption can be approximated to 20%-25% of the stall current rating. This means that this motor consumes about 4A-5A continuously which is well below 12A that the RB-Dim-43 can provide. So, you should be fine with this driver.
You can measure the current being pulled by the motor using a Current Sensor attached in series with your motor and interfaced with your Raspberry Pi. For example, this Phidgets 30 Amp Current Sensor AC&DC might interest you.